Past Events with Martin Ucik

Presents:
Integral Relationships Introduction and Weekend Workshop/Gathering

Rudramandir, 830 Bancroft Way, Berkeley, CA 94710 (map)

Friday March 2, 2012 7:00 pm – 9:30 pm (introduction to the model, group sharing, and Q&A)
$10 pre-registration ($15 suggested donation at the door, no one turned away for lack of funds)

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March 3+4, 2012 10:00 am –5:00 pm (experiental workshop with 20 individual, paired and group exercises)
$147 for the first 10 registrations, $177 after.

Pre-Register through Paypal below, mail a check, let us know by email that you will come or fill out the contact form

• Connect with like minded male and female singles, partners and couples (and sexual orientation)!
• Experience Integral Relationships through engaging individual, paired and group exercises.
• Explore and discuss your:
  - Primary sexual fantasy of males and females
  - Primary emotional reactions males and females
  - Learned gender roles
  - Feminine/masculine polarities
  - Multiple intelligences, passions, interests, values and needs.
  - Levels of consciousness, spiritual, anima/animus complex, and sexual development
  - Love languages and Ennegram type
  - Unconscious beliefs about the opposite sex
  - Eight forms of love
  - (In)compatibilities between partners
  - Effective communication skills
  
  
• Couples will identify growth potentials that allow them to deepen their loving connection on the levels of body, mind, heart, and soul/spirit.
  
• Singles will receive a clear roadmap to finding/attracting and identifying compatible partners for the co-creation of sustainable relationships between opposites and equals (and possibly meet their soulmate at the workshop).

Presents:
Integral Relationships and Sexuality

Feb. 13, 2012, Berkeley, at Rudramandir where we had almost 40 participants

"That was very interesting Martin. I am eager to learn more about Wilber and cosmic consciousness. I loved your presentation." Georgina

"The talking part last night was great -- you struck the perfect note of wry and self-deprecating -- you're either a practiced or very gifted speaker.   The audience also really seemed to click with:

- the shame-guilt part
- the 5 languages of love
- checking out prospective dates by email to find out their enneagram/language of love style
- the idea that people can be very advanced spiritually but on other axes not so advanced (or vice versa) "
Harriette

"Great to meet you today and I really enjoyed your talk.   It was great to hear how you have integrated all the theories into relationships.  It was a wonderful forum to learn and talk to some other people in the session who are all open to how integral applies to relationships.  Thanks. "
Jon

Integral Matrix Los Angeles Presents:
Integral Relationships Evening Talk, and Weekend Workshop/Gathering

Jan 2o-22, 2012 The Meeting Room, 2999 Overland Avenue, Suite 205A, Los Angeles, CA 90064

Participant Feedback:

An inspiring and eye-opening weekend!
"The Integral Relationships Workshop with Martin Ucik was an inspiring and eye-opening weekend for both of us.  I think what truly sets Martin and his work apart is his phenomenal ability to process and communicate vast amounts of diverse relationship wisdom into a digestible format that feeds the mind... and somewhat unexpectedly, the heart as well.  Many experiential practices are woven throughout the course so that we not only understand the content but also feel it deeply.  This combination of knowledge and real world application is missing in a lot of offerings in the world today and in the integral community in particular.  We both loved Martin and his style."
David & Beth, Los Angeles, CA

You did it fantastically well!
"I would like to commend you and thank you for your Integral Relationships workshop in Los Angeles.  You were meticulously prepared.  Especially given that this was your first whole weekend, you had the timing of the exercises well thought through and you never seemed rushed.  I found the experiential exercises involving the rope and the quadrants illuminating.  Your prepared questions for each quadrant were very helpful.  I frankly wondered how you could educate people unfamiliar with Ken's quadrants in such a short time, but you did it fantastically well!  My partner had never been exposed to Ken's work and now she wants to read much more of his work.

Your being of vulnerability, your humility and your knowledge of this material made for a tremendous weekend workshop.  I learned about my partner, about Ken's work, and about myself.

Thank you Martin!"

Sincerely,
Marc Sadoff, MSW, BCD
Pacific Skills Training Co.
www.RealHope.com

Just fantastic!
"My friend Ted Baker and I hosted Martin's Los Angeles weekend intensive seminar just this last weekend, and it was just fantastic!
Some friends and I have been holding the longest running integral salon / meetup group in the Los Angeles area for several years now, and we were delighted that Martin Ucik took on the job of combining integral meta-theory with his vast knowledge of masculine/feminine energetic and male/female gender relationships, after having read over 200 books on the subject (!).   He beautifully wove together the important points of many different perspectives, including representational modalities (visual, auditory, kinesthetic), developmental models, the Enneagram, our primary fantasies, and anima/animus stages, plus much more.   What I got the most out of, personally, were the anima/animus stage distinctions and the experiential exercises that Martin very skillfully facilitated; getting it "in your head" is one thing, getting it to move from your head "into the body and being" is quite another, and that is where transformation lives and breathes (as Ken Wilber often says, "the map is not the territory", the territory is our embodied lives and relationships).
Martin is both wise and humble, a beautiful human, being and doing, and I can not recommend his seminars highly enough; this work of his comes from an authentic heart, sharing knowledge, compassion and love, truly a gift for those of us fortunate enough to receive it.   I heartily endorse his great work! "
Eliot Bissey

Martin is The Man!
"We had a great time at the first Integral Relationship Workshop this weekend.  In case you didn't know, Martin is The Man!"
David Pearson

What a beautiful “holon” of love we co-created together!
"Thank you again for calling forth such a powerful vibration of love, growth and inspiration which I felt in attending the Los Angeles Integral Relationship Workshop.  When I first read your book (Marc’s copy) I was overwhelmed with the charts, graphs, diagrams, etc., as my brain does not easily grasp a concept in a visual format.   And yet through the written word of your text I was intrigued enough to attend your workshop and to learn more about Integral Relationships.  

I was wonderfully surprised at how much I grew to understand this concept and attribute it fully to the format of your workshop.   Through the many experiential exercises [almost 20] I was able to understand the concepts introduced to me in your book.  And thus, am better equipped to practice this as a way of being in the world for better understanding and compassion for myself and my partner as well as all those I am connected to in relationship.

I appreciate the way we opened up the workshop on Saturday in meditation and with the “circle of affirmation” and then immediately into the pairing up in the quadrants with a partner.   This really helped break the ice and set the tone for a safe place to be "real" for the weekend.   I found the lists of questions you supplied most helpful in inviting a more authentic and open dialogue with another.  

You’re facilitation kept me so engaged the entire two days of the workshop that not once did I care to check the time.   By the end of the day Sunday, I felt so connected to not only each workshop attendee but to my extended community and the planet as a whole.   What a beautiful “holon” of love we co-created together!

I’m so grateful to you, Martin, for the work you have done in your life in writing this book, for your courage and integrity in sharing it with others - and most of all for allowing me to feel and see a heart wide open to love!   My prayer is that you continue to share your love and gifts to as many people as possible."  

Thank you for the way you show up in Life.  Your life is truly a blessing!  Thank you for sharing a bit of that with me.”

In gratitude and in joy.
Rumi Noon

December 8, 2011 Santa Rosa

Santa Rosa, CA "Consciousness Development Through Relationships" Thursday December 8th 2011 7:00 - 9:00 PM.
IONS Santa Rosa at the Flamingo Hotel 2777 Fourth Street, Santa Rosa, CA 95405. All are welcome! $10 donation requested.

Feedback:
"Very lively, thought-provoking presentation on your part. Thank you. Interactions with intelligent, thoughtful people too. I am curious to find out more about IONS. I'd love the opportunity to chat with you about the experience."

"You have so much information and helpful knowledge to share and clearly people were getting richness out of it.  Your enthusiasm and depth of knowledge comes through."

Ocotober 17th 2011
"New York Integral Relationships Evening Talk"

Alex Grey, who attended the talk with his wife, and Martin Ucik after the presentation. Alex Grey wrote later:
"Thank you so much for your brilliant work and kind words.  Thank you also for the gift of your book."

October 17th 2011: 7:00 - 9:00 PM. Integral New York at One Spirit Learning Alliance
247 West 36th Street, New York, NY 10018 www.onespiritinterfaith.org. $5 admission fee at the door. All are welcome!

Detailed review about this event by Barbara Larisch and Robin Reinach at http://integralleadershipreview.com/6383-martin-ucik-author-of-integral-relationships-in-discourse-with-integral-new-york